prekinitev zveze

Ok…So…. We were together for 11 months…at the beginning i spent very little time with her….icame very late..like at 10p.m. I worked a lot during the day and it was really bad. We saw eachother every second day, but only late night. She than saw that as a lack of love and she went home for a couple of days….she said that it is over. I loved her, so i decided to change that. I started to spends the whole weekend with her and monday and tuesday afternoon. We spent some really nice time together. But then the problems appeared again. She was very angry, because sometimes iwent to sleap early even at weekends , around midnight. I was tired from the week and that bothered her. Everything became such a routine. We fixed that and we started to have more fun. I tried to tell her a lot of times that we can not do so many things, because, i dont have so much money. She is not yet employed, so she has nothing. She lived with her parents before, and when she started to live with me, I payed everything we did, everything we eat, totally everything. I understood that she has no money and her family is very poor and i did that. But of course paying everything for 2 person is expensive. Then we were cool and having fun for a couple months, and one day she got angry. It was midnight and i was tired. She decided to go home and never see me again.That it is over I bagged her to stay ,because that is definitely not worth going away. But she decided to go. After that i sent her a message the following day and she did not respond. I decided to meet some new people so i added 2 girls on instagram, The following day, i met with one of them I felt literally nothing, not because they were not cool, but because i missed my girlfriend. I texted her and we came together again. Than i went to a club with my girlfriend on saturday night and a girl that i met saw us and she kindly said hi. My girlfriend realized that something happened between us. She decided to go home again and to never come back. That it is over for real. Than i told her what happened. She said, that this is cheating for her and she is definitely never coming back again. What do you think abou that. Was that really that bad, or she is just not interested enough. Do you think she will realize that she made a mistake too?

I think you should work on yourself.

If someone decides to leave and never come back and does not do so, then they’re lying. Personally i dont like liars, but whatever suits you man.

Yes, maybe, but it will be too late for you two, you might not even like eachother after one of you changes.

I believe there are some issues on your part as well.

In absolutely every case, regarding relationship issues, there’s never just one person’s fault for when things go bad. Take the responsibility for your part.

Another life advice:
Tell the truth, or at least don’t lie.

I’m not quite sure why you’ve told us your story in english.

Regards, DW