Punce:Resna zveza

ne vem no, sam jst se ne strinjam s tem. Če se imasta dva res rada, se sploh ne bosta delala ljubosumnega…in itak, da se ustrašiš, da jo boš izgubi. in če se res ljubita, ona pol itak ve, da se ti pretvarjaš, da ti je vseeno..

Ej ma ke si to prebral. Morš neki vedt. neki je zavestno mišljenje, neki pa podzavestno. S tem k ti ne kažeš ljubosumja ne vplivaš tok na zavestno komponento kot pa na podzavestno.

Brez zamere, sam se mi zdi, da nisi še glih kej dost izkušen in da tvoje mnenje o ljubezni izhaja it tv sladkarij.

Gregy a te lohk prašam kolk si star?
Dodajam pa sam še tole. Mogoč sem idealistka, sam če dvema res klapa, pol ne rabta nobenih igrc, ker če rabta to, pol se mi zdi, da je to že znak, da ni vse ok.

Ja res je, idealistka si:)))

Pa saj to pravim tudi jaz. Se strinjam s tabo.

Sanja z Mosta?!?!?!?!

Star bom 18 let.Ampak sm takšen že od malih nog in prosm ne mi govorit, da imam še čas, da sm mald…nobeden ni rad sam…sploh če si želiš ljubiti nekoga.
Se popolnoma strinjam s teboj…nobenih igric ni potrebno!!! Ti si že takšna ki jo iščem:)

No pa dajte punce, če ste proste..naj se mi katera oglasi po mailu: [email protected]

Ej gregy vedno bolj dobivam obcutek da je tvoj problem čist nekje drugje 😉 Pa ne mi zamert.
Najprej jokaš kako se dekleta samo igrajo s tabo, nato pa vabiš prosta dekleta naj se ti oglasijo. Ne mi zamert sam na napačne karte igraš.

Samo opozorilo Grega. Ni najbolj pametno, da na internet daješ svoj osebni naslov. Napravi si kakega anonimnega na hotmailu recimo ali kje drugje, pa tistega okoli dajaj.

pa ne prost punc naj se ti javjo, ker je pateticno. A ti ni jasn da takih ne marajo.

Fantje, zdej ste opisovali punce, ki so t.i. “pičke”. Za takšne punce se sploh ne oziram. Tiste, ki imajo rade frajere, ki so glasni po diskačih, barčkih ,… jih kr nej majo. Za take mi prov dol vis. Taki punci lahko tudi družba več pomeni kot partner. Poznam par takih primerov. Kar se v diskaču začne, se bo tudi tm končalo…sej pa sami veste, da je danes po svetu ena sama velika kurbarija in da še za svoja lastna starša skor ne morš bit sigurn, če ne skačeta čez plot. Nas pa je nekaj ljudi, vsaj upam no, ki pa nismo taki in ne potrebujemo raznih ljubosumnih igric in nevem česa, da bi dokazovali in preverjali ljubezen in zvezo. Sej čustva tudi niso na tipko…pridejo sami, ugašajo se pa zelo počasi. Kako počasi je seveda odvisno od človeka…nekateremu tudi pustijo sledove, nekateremu ne…torej tiste babnice, ki iščejo take frajerje, ki se grejo kdo je močnejši, kdo jih je več podrl, kdo dobr bleše, ima kvadratke po trebuhu, kdo več spije,…za take mi je čist vseeno. Taka te zopet slej ko prej prizadene ali pa ni take ljubezni, ki si jo želimo mi(taki kot sm jst in Lola-Lola tud jst sm idealist:)) ) No sam to vam povem. Resna ženska ne bo nikoli redno zahajla v barčke, kjer so vsak vikend pijan tipi. Ker takega ne potrebuje. Lola, tebe bi pa prav rad spoznal…čeprav mislim, da si prestara oz. bom jst premlad zate…
Sicer pa tud to ni prav, da se je zdej ta moja tema že spreminja v kupidove strani..mislim, da smo tu gor eni trije taki tipi…eden bo mogoče kej dobil, drugi bodo pa spet zviseli in postali potrti…potem se ti pa zopet po glavi rojijo razna neumna vprašanja o sebi…sam kaj si mormo, taki pač smo an idealisti?? :)))

Kako bom jst punce iskal je itak moja stvar a ni? Lahko da tako rečeš tudi zato, ker se sam bojiš, da boš zvisel…veliko je možnosti, zato ne moreš govorit kaj in kako naj nekdo dela…glede maila pa tudi vem, samo ne da se mi pol gor hodit gledat:))

to sem rekel samo Loli, ki pa mislim, da je moje sorte…ne da igram napačne karte…igram več kart naenkrat. Glede punc kako se igrajo z menoj…to so pač take, ki sem sprva mislil, da so takšne kot jst-prave zame in se je skazilo, da niso. Še vedno pa si želim imeti ob sebi osebo, ki jo bom ljubil in ki bo ona ljubila mene….kaj si ti fant al punca??..predvidevam da fant.

Grega, a veš kaj je tle najbl smešn? To da ravno pridne punčke še tok bl padajo na barabe. Zdej si star 18, sej čez ene par let boš to spoznal. Mislm da se bojo tle punce kr strinjale z mano, da je na moškemu dost bl privlačno to, če je mal baraba, da ma mal ognja, ne pa obratno.
Drugač pa grega, deli pač po svoje, sam mogoče pa enkrat za joke probi to kar ti jest govorim.

lp
simon

Ja sej mogoče maš res prav….mogoče nima noben…sej veš kako je življenje. Probal sm pa itak, pa ne gre..res ne morm pa konc..Tud avanturist sm hotu postat, pa še preden sva v splanico pršla se mi je vse obrnil….ne razumete da ne morem bit drugačen?? :))

Različni smo si. Enim so všeč “barabe” oz “disko pičke”, kar pa ni nč narobe. Druge pa to pač odbija, tko da mislim, da ne morš posploševat.
Live & let live.

maš prav ja:)))

Spet se bo folk spravljal name, ampak se 100% strinjam s siminom ker imam sam tocno take izkusnje! Cim zenska ugotovi, da si “njen”, ji nisi vec zanimiv in to je to, konc veselja.
Sem pac tak tip cloveka, ki je zelo prijazen in rad pomagam folku, nekatere zenske pa mislijo, da delam zanje stvari samo zato, ker bi za njih naredil vse, pa to sploh ni res! Ce me en frend prosi, da mu nardim sendvic, mu ga bom naredu glih tko kot eni punci, ki mi je vse na svetu, tak pac sem. Samo zenske bojo pa mislile “aha, rekla sem mu, ce mi nardi sendic in mi ga je naredu, se prav, da ga vrtim okrog prsta”.
Opazam, da imajo zenske rade, da so nekako v podrejenem polozaju tipu, poznam par primerov, ko jih tip dobesedno jebe v glavo, pa zali pred ostalimi, pa mu bo ista zenska se vedno naslednje jutro prnesla zajtrk v pojstlo in ga lepo zaljubljeno gledala, tega jest ne stekam ker pac nisem tip, ki bi to zenskam delal.

Jest se zavzemam za enakopravnost med partnerjema v odnosu, ne pa da je eden od njiju ned drugim (v moji druzbi imam vec takih primerov, tko med moskimi kot med zenskami), taki odnosi so, kar se mene tice, cist zgreseni.
Ok, dost nakladanja, ze tko sem mal zasel iz teme, se tipkamo, me prov zanima kaksni bojo zenski odgovori na tale post.

LP, jinxy

No, zanimiva in poučna debata. Prebral sem vse prispevke in moram reči, da se s Simonom daleč najbolj strinjam.

Sicer pa sem pred časom na netu naletel na ZELO zanimiv (in zabaven) članek, katerega priporočam vsem. Komentarji seveda zelo dobrodošli. Pa še to – s tem člankom se zelo strinjam.

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THE TRUTH ABOUT SINGLE WOMEN’S ATTRACTION TO JERKS ( or WHY WOMEN DON’T LIKE WIMPY NICE GUYS )

Did you NOTICE that women keep saying that they want a nice guy. BUT …. how come they are always going after some stupid jerk?. Go and get brain surgery immediately if you believe when women say that they want a guy who is sensitive, caring, understanding, that will treat them with respect, and on and on. Do NOT believe what women SAY. Instead, WATCH what women DO. They go after the jerks, don’t they? Always remember that actions speak much louder that words. NEVER, EVER believe what women tell you. Instead, WATCH FOR THEIR ACTIONS. Watch what women do. They go after jerks. Even better. Watch what ANY person (male or female) does. His/her behavior is the best predictor of his/her personality.

WHY DO SINGLE WOMEN GO AFTER JERKS?.

There is ONE undeniable TRUTH that you must understand: ‘WOMEN DON’T CARE FOR A NICE GUY. WOMEN GO AFTER A JERK BECAUSE HE IS HARD TO GET AND WOMEN WANT WHAT THEY CANNOT HAVE”. The BIG QUESTIONS are:

1. Why are nice guys ignored?

2. Why are women so attracted to jerks?.

3. Is she attracted only to jerks or to ANY guy who can make her “feel” the way a jerk does?

4. If a nice guy adopted some of the jerk’s techniques, would he attract women like the jerk does?

The answers to these questions are based on the NEED for the SURVIVAL OF THE FITTEST. And IT explains women ‘s behavior EXTREMELY ACCURATELY. I have never seen it explained so clearly before. It took me some time years ago to understand what was going on. Maybe other men have already observed this.

FEMALE’S GENETIC PROGRAMMING

Listen carefully. Females OF ALL SPECIES were genetically programmed by Mother Nature to MATE with the dominant males of their species, NOT the weak ones. BY mating with the dominant males of their particular species, the GENES of the strongest males were passed to the newborn thus assuring its SURVIVAL in a very hostile environment. You can observe this MATING RITUAL happening over and over aging in the animal kingdom.

Here is HOW Nature assured the SURVIVAL OF THE FITTEST: First: Nature had to find a way to make the female willing to surrender and MATE with the male. There had to be an INCENTIVE for her to WANT to mate. Would you engage in sexual intercourse if it were absolutely boring or unpleasant?. Of course not. So, in order to make her a WILLING participant, the female of the species was programmed to feel all those intense, uncontrollable, overwhelming, pleasurable FEELINGS that makes her ready to go ahead and MATE. Have you heard the expression: my female dog is in HEAT?. You know that this female dog goes CRAZY. If that dog were not in HEAT, there would be no copulation, no mating.

Second: Nature wanted to preserve the strongest traits of that species. Therefore, the female was programmed to have those crazy, wild feelings and emotions PREDOMINANTLY toward THE STRONGEST, MOST DOMINANT MALES, the ones that she COULD NOT CONTROL, the ones that would dominate her. You must have observed in Wildlife that the female does NOT surrender to the weakest, but she waits for the WINNER AMONG ALL THE MALES fighting for her favors. And the winner is always the strongest one. And the fighting itself contributes to make her quite EXCITED. And the sight of the winner makes her even MORE excited to the point where she WILLINGLY surrenders and MATES WITH THE WINNER.

Do you understand what I said?. The female was programmed by Mother Nature to feel ATTRACTED to and MATE with the dominant males, not the weak ones. Is it the strong male, not the weak, the one who makes her FEEL really excited and turned on. Well, guess what. Women, the females of our species, have exactly THAT SAME INFORMATION still coded in their genetic structure. And -this ancient MATING INSTINCT is constantly being REINFORCED in ALL women, FROM A VERY EARLY AGE, by the heroes of Hollywood, TV and the mindless soap operas and romantic novels that women devour.

All these heroes are supremely self-confident, strong, untamable, they cannot be controlled by ANY woman, they treat women roughly, they can do no wrong, they always say the right things and make the right moves, they SWEEP WOMEN OFF THEIR FEET and they always end up getting the females.

THE MESSAGE BEING CONSTANTLY REINFORCED IN ALL SINGLE WOMEN is that ONLY the uncontrollable, untamable guy is desirable . And that ANY nice guy should be ignored. Therefore, women all over the world keep dreaming about some knight in a shining armor WHO will SWEEP THEM OFF THEIR FEET, and dominate them and make them go totally OUT OF CONTROL and possess them. That is why the strong, dominant, unpredictable, untamable male is a turn-on for ANY WOMAN. She was programmed to respond to that kind of a male. She goes “NUTS” for this type of guy. She will do ANYTHING to try to get him.

This genetic programming in the females is accomplished in great part through a very powerful hormone known as Estrogen, the “FEELING” drug. It makes females want to feel, and feel, and feel. On the other side of the spectrum, a powerful hormone known as Testosterone, the “PERFORMANCE/ACHIEVEMENT” drug, is the one that makes men “hunters” and gives them the drive to achieve, invent, create. That would very nicely explain why women CRAVE for intense feelings and emotions. They love to FEEL, FEEL and FEEL. They have this uncontrollable, almost “psychotic” NEED to talk about their relationships and what/how they FEEL all the time. They couldn’t care less about how things work, about computers and about cars. Except when they want you to buy one for them.

It would also explain why men DON’T have this overwhelming, uncontrollable, even ”psychotic” NEED, to talk about their feelings and they are much happier creating, inventing, and talking about their computers, their cars and their latest high-tech toys. Women FEEL happy when they FEEL. Men FEEL happy when they ACCOMPLISH something. LOGICALLY SPEAKING, ANY woman should try to avoid the jerks, the bad guys, AT ALL COST considering that she has been drilled over and over by her mother ( and even her father) that men are no good, that they are only interested in sex. Does she follow her mother’s instructions?. Of course not.

Instead, she keeps going after the troublemakers, the guys who are going to hurt her. These BAD guys project these vibes of being so dominant and uncontrollable that it TURNS ON the all powerful MATING INSTINCT to mate with a DOMINANT male, a male perceived as strong because he is uncontrollable, a male who gives her a sense of security that females themselves don’t have, a male who makes her feel totally OUT OF CONTROL, a male who makes her surrender completely, and who controls and dominates and possesses her. And SHE LOVES THOSE FEELINGS. She loves the feelings she gets WHEN being DOMINATED AND BEING OUT OF CONTROL, just like her female counterpart in the animal kingdom.

These feelings act as a powerful and highly ADDICTIVE DRUG that she MUST have AGAIN and AGAIN, EVEN when she gets hurt. Of course, Mother Nature ONLY wanted to assure the survival of the species by means of this ANCIENT MATING RITUAL. But this is not a “useful” behavior any longer. MOTHER NATURE should have! terminated it a long time ago. BUT IT WAS NEVER DONE. And modern women still carry with them, wherever they go, this “useless” genetic information that gets them incredibly “TURNED ON” anytime they encounter a jerk or a hard-to-get man.